Total Transformation Review

I’ve written many review entries about the Total Transformation Program, but this is the first one that includes audio and video preview information.
There is a written component to the program itself of course in the form of the workbook, but the main delivery method of the material is audio and visual through the CD’s and […]

Conventional wisdom, parenting advice books, and probably your own mother all told you the same thing – you must treat all your children the same way.
James Lehman thinks that’s ineffective and I agree with him completely.
In fact, I think it’s more than ineffective, it’s just plain silly. You wouldn’t (or shouldn’t) do it in other […]

So, when your baby was born, you had a noble goal of being the perfect parent, right?
When exactly did reality set in? I hope it happened sooner rather than later, because as we all learn at some point, there is no such thing as the perfect parent or perfect parenting. Of course, we hope for […]

When I was listening to the audio CD for lesson 2 of The Total Transformation, I heard something that almost caused me to spit the milk out as I was drinking it!
I know, it sounds like a sitcom scene, but that’s how it happened. I was taking a sip of the milk at the exact […]

For everyone who has been waiting for the continuation of the Total Transformation reviews, this is the latest entry and there will be several more to come over the next day or so.
When we last left off discussing the topic, we were going over the parenting mistakes that James Lehman identified in the program.
This next […]

This is a continuation of the Parenting Mistakes series that I started about a week ago.
I was analyzing parts of lesson 2 in The Total Transformation. At this section of the material, they were discussing different mistakes that parents make in their dealings with their kids.
One such mistake is taking on the role of “savior” […]

In Parenting Mistake Validating Bad Behavior, I left the readers with a question and that was did they realize the gravity of the damage they do to their kids when they validate bad behavior.
In the example I used (which was a personal observation), the mother told the kid to ignore the father that had recently […]

When I was reviewing the Total Transformation material , there was no more of an emphasis on this one ineffective technique than any other, but since I have seen this mistake and its destructive results, I am putting the emphasis on it.
To put it in simple terms, this problem arises when parents tell kids that […]